Use your super powers for good

September 27, 2007 · Posted in Choices, Daughters, Education, Inspiration, Motivation 

I am continuously awed and humbled by the things that my daughters notice, whether it’s something they’ve seen or heard. The fact that they’ve noticed these things is often revealed to me in either a quiet, one on one conversation or while observing the two of them playing together.

Children notice everything!

Here’s a news flash. They see and hear everything I do or say, they adapt it to whatever it is they are doing and then over time, if allowed to go unchecked, they adopt it into their lives. I’m sure that if you have children, at some point, your child repeated a word, phrase, idea or thought that took you a little while to realize where it came from.

The eye-opener is that I understand my influence only because I am constantly exposed to my daughters. I make it a point to talk with them and treat them as intelligent, partially grown human beings. They respond by eagerly developing into two smart and inventive little girls.

I realize the effect of my influence on my daughters only because of my continual exposure to them. This made me begin to wonder, “How many people do we influence that we don’t know about and how do we influence them?” I’ve decided to call the ways that we influence others, “our Powers”.

1. THE POWER TO INSPIRE AND MOTIVATE

When others see us:

  • attempt and then accomplish a task

  • meet a deadline

  • overcome an obstacle

  • go back to school

  • learn a new skill

  • go beyond what is the status quo

…they realize that “it” can be done. They are inspired to “do more” and “go beyond” their previously self-imposed limitations. By our attitudes, character and actions we have the power to move others in the direction of their true potential. We have the power to motivate them to pursue their goals because we have demonstrated that a worthwhile goal can be achieved.

2. THE POWER TO LEAD

Some individuals are natural born leaders while others have the role of leader thrust upon them. Who looks to you for leadership?

  • friends

  • co-workers

  • children

  • spouse

  • others

You may be surprised. We may not see ourselves as leaders, but the odds are the someone looks up to us as their leader. Are we exhibiting good leadership qualities? Do we demonstrate:

  • integrity

  • a solid work ethic

  • preparedness

  • or a host of other qualities that we expect our leaders to have?

Remember, never expect more from others than you are willing to give. It is a sobering thought to know that someone is watching and emulating what we say, what we do, what we think, how we act and the attitudes we portray.

3. THE POWER TO TEACH

You have skills. You know things. Perhaps you:

  • know a shortcut for doing a particular job

  • know a tip or technique for doing a task more efficiently, quicker or more economically

  • know who to contact to get that “certain something” done

  • have devised a system that others are unaware of

  • know where to go for the answers

Tell someone about your unheralded skills. It will make you feel good to share plus you will help someone else become more productive. Rest assured, 99% of the time, they will give you the credit for developing their skills.

4. THE POWER TO LEARN

If you want a new skill, then learn it. It doesn’t matter whether is is becoming proficient with a new software package or learning how to use a hand plane (a woodworking tool), you can learn. Your mind is like a muscle, it never loses it’s ability to increase it’s functions. You can develop new skills and abilities through hearing, observation, imitation and deduction. The only realistic limitations we have are the ones that we place on ourselves.

5. THE POWER TO ENCOURAGE

It is truly amazing when you stop to realize how much affect a few words of encouragement can have. A simple “good job” or “nice try” lets others know that we see and value their efforts and accomplishments.

One of the largest complaints that I hear in my position is, “no one respects or appreciates what I do”. Studies have shown that workers in general are more likely to perform better, quicker and more efficiently if their efforts are noticed. Continual improvement is more reliant on this personal encouragement than the promise of financial gain.

Stop to encourage others with a word of appreciation or a smile. The benefits will be long lasting - even if you don’t see them.

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3 Responses to “Use your super powers for good”

  1. Personal Growth on September 27th, 2007 9:27 pm

    Yup i do still remember that i could do a lot of things as a child but as i kept growing older the learning just kept decreasing… i sometimes sit back and think… i wish i was a kid again

  2. Joanne on September 28th, 2007 12:30 am

    I noticed the same thing from my children too, especially those sentences I’m using when they’re naughty or doing something wrong. Many times, I heard them fighting and shouting to one another, using exactly the same sentence that I used. It reminded me again and again to be careful with my words whenever I need to discipline them. And I know why they came into my life, because there are so many things that I do not realise and need to learn … and they are here to help me through …

    Cheers,
    Joanne
    http://www.imhappyfish.com/blog

  3. Chris Melton on September 28th, 2007 1:16 am

    Isn’t it amazing how humble our children can keep us?

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